What up guys…
Here’s a quick field report documenting a live example of
how to banter with women 
[Part I]
The other night, I decided to clock in some evening hours
at Coffee World to work on some new projects.
Approximately 15 minutes later…
A group of smoking hot tourists — which I discovered later
were Irvine (California) undergrad students – came in and sat
down right across the table from where I was.
Two minute goes by…
One of them comes up to me to ask if I had any idea whereabouts
they can find ‘transexuals’ in Bangkok.
Obviously, they wanted some raw uncut entertainment and
amusement. Witnessing transsexuals for the first time in
their lives must be special occasion.
Don’t get the wrong picture though, it may be stereotypical
to assume that transsexuals flood the streets here Bangkok,
but in actuality; their community is very small.
Anyways, as soon as she asked,
I decided to step the plate and and tease her…
I throw her a playfully startled look and tell her…
“Wow, I really didn’t know you were the type that’s into them.”
She instantly laughed and gave me a playful punch to the arm.
Note: Whenever a woman initiates such physical contact,
you’ve broken the ice.
I then tell her where she can locate them, and surprisingly…
she continues to ask me whether “they are good-looking”
This gave me more fuel to tease…
I tell her… “I am really starting to get a stronger
impression that you like them now.”
“Were you… (pause) a transexual in your past life?”
Bam. Double-shots of flirtatious tension.
***
[Part II]
A friend of hers then joins and sees what the commotion is,
and her face lights up with joy when she sees my laptop.
(I assume she’s been internet-deprived and hasn’t checked her
email due to heavy-duty traveling.)
Well, I was right. She asks if she can use my laptop
since she hasn’t checked her mail for 5 days.
I said “No.”
They both go “Awww. Why?”
I tell her, “it gets me jealous when other hands besides
from mine touching it.”
Bam. Added flirtatious tension. They both giggle.
Of course, I then gave her permission.
So what happened in the end?
Me and the girls wind up talking & bonding for the
next half an hour.
As the group was about to depart, one of them
even voiced their hesitation to leave as she wanted to stay
behind and talk learn more about Bangkok. (Obviously an
excuse to stick around.)
Well,
I hope you found this short report helpful in some way
The moral of this entry : Never settle for mundane
conventioanl responses.
When a woman is hot, “never please but tease”.
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Posted by TeezYou Date: Saturday, January 30, 2010
Categories: Relationships
Tags: Bangkok, Date, Flirt, pick up line, sex, Tease
It’s inarguable: Any man with social proof will always be perceived with higher value and status, thus making him more desirable.
Now, the question is, how do can we maximize our social proof? how we can explode our network of friends?
Here’s a quick tip that’ll go a LONG way.
Say “Hello” to the people around you more often!
Of course, wait til the you guys meet eye-to-eye.
Although most of us were raised and taught not to “talk to strangers”, I believe now is the time to defy this rule. If you fear meeting new people, start developing a passion to do so now.
Watch your social network and contact list on your phone balloon within the next month 
The more frequent you practice this method, the more “accustomed” you’ll grow to this new habit, and trust me, your popularity / social proof will shoot through the roof.
Now hit the stride and get go on a “Hello”ing spree! You’ll soon realize that most people are more responsive and friendlier than you’ve expected.
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Posted by TeezYou Date: Thursday, January 21, 2010
Categories: Relationships
Tags: confidence, contact list, Date, dating, social network
I remember in the months leading up to the year 2000, I made love resolutions for the new millennium. I joked with friends that I wouldn’t date anyone who was not Y2K compatible, but I was serious. I wanted to be thoughtful about my love life in the 2000s. I’ve always believed that consciousness and commitment are key ingredients to change.
As you step into this new decade, I would encourage you to be thoughtful about your dating life and your relationships. To help you get started, here is my Top Ten Dating Resolutions for 2010.
1) Date the person — not the potential.
It’s wonderful to believe that the object of your desire will come around and treat you the way you want to be treated but remember – you’re more likely to find success in love if you are realistic about who is in front of you today.
2) Listen to your date’s words, but put more credence in her actions.
I often tell singles to pretend their dating lives are a silent movie. A woman may tell you she really likes you and wants to be with you, but if she is not following up and making you a priority, take the cue that she may not be relationship ready.
3) Take Risks.
If you keep doing the same thing in your love life and want to find new results, you have to do – and date – differently. Sometimes this means stepping outside of your comfort zone and trying new activities to meet new people or stretching yourself emotionally.
4) Be Open.
You cannot have true intimacy without vulnerability. If you keep protecting yourself from getting hurt, you are shutting yourself off from real connection.
5) Be Resilient.
Remember that most dating scenarios are designed to fail. If everyone hit it off with every date, there would be no such thing as ‘dating’! Sound depressing? It’s actually good news. There is no need to put pressure on yourself that each date has to be a home-run.
6) Be Present.
Sometimes we are so concerned and analytical about whether or not someone is a good match that we ignore how we actually feel about the people we spend time with. Be present on your next date and see how you feel. Now.
7) Be Positive.
Plain and simple – a positive attitude attracts and will make dating more enjoyable. When you start dating new people, resist the urge to complain about how your ex hurt you or how much you hate your job. Stay upbeat!
Get Over An Ex Who is Haunting You.
Find yourself comparing every date to the woman who broke your heart? Write an angry letter (just make sure not to send the draft!), process your feelings with a friend or a therapist and do what you must do to find closure so you’re not bringing all the baggage from your last relationship into a potentially great new relationship.
9) Sweat the Small Stuff.
Do not undermine how important small gestures are to a woman. Making sure your date gets home okay, listening and genuinely being curious about what your date has to say, and being thoughtful often counts more to a woman than grand gestures.
10) Have fun.
In 2010, make a resolution to have fun in your dating pursuits! Dating is a great opportunity to meet new people, step out of your comfort zone and try new things. ENJOY!
Andrea Syrtash is a dating expert, life coach, author and host of ‘ON Dating’, produced by NBC Digital Studios. Her third book, “He’s Just Not Your Type (and that’s a good thing)” will be published by Rodale in April 2010. Andrea has made Google ‘hot trends’, ranking in the top 100 things googled on particular days between 2007-2009. She has no idea how that happened, but appreciates the (very postmodern) honor. For more visit www.andreasyrtash.com
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Posted by TeezYou Date: Thursday, January 14, 2010
Categories: Relationships
Tags: Date, dating, new year's, resolution
