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How To Tease Women & Create Flirtatious Tension

What up guys…

Here’s a quick field report documenting a live example of
how to banter with women

[Part I]

The other night, I decided to clock in some evening hours
at Coffee World to work on some new projects.

Approximately 15 minutes later…

A group of smoking hot tourists — which I discovered later
were Irvine (California) undergrad students –  came in and sat
down right across the table from where I was.

Two minute goes by…

One of them comes up to me to ask if I had any idea whereabouts
they can find ‘transexuals’ in Bangkok.

Obviously, they wanted some raw uncut entertainment and
amusement. Witnessing transsexuals for the first time in
their lives must be special occasion.

Don’t get the wrong picture though, it may be stereotypical
to assume that transsexuals flood the streets here Bangkok,
but in actuality; their community is very small.

Anyways, as soon as she asked,

I decided to step the plate and and tease her…

I throw her a playfully startled look and tell her…

“Wow, I really didn’t know you were the type that’s into them.”

She instantly laughed and gave me a playful punch to the arm.

Note: Whenever a woman initiates such physical contact,
you’ve broken the ice.

I then tell her where she can locate them, and surprisingly…
she continues to ask me whether “they are good-looking”

This gave me more fuel to tease…

I tell her… “I am really starting to get a stronger
impression that you like them now.”

“Were you… (pause) a transexual in your past life?”

Bam. Double-shots of flirtatious tension.

***

[Part II]

A friend of hers then joins and sees what the commotion is,
and her face lights up with joy when she sees my laptop.

(I assume she’s been internet-deprived and hasn’t checked her
email due to heavy-duty traveling.)

Well, I was right. She asks if she can use my laptop
since she hasn’t checked her mail for 5 days.

I said “No.”

They both go “Awww. Why?”

I tell her, “it gets me jealous when other hands besides
from mine touching it.”

Bam. Added flirtatious tension. They both giggle.

Of course, I then gave her permission.

So what happened in the end?

Me and the girls wind up talking & bonding for the
next half an hour.

As the group was about to depart, one of them
even voiced their hesitation to leave as she wanted to stay
behind and talk learn more about Bangkok. (Obviously an
excuse to stick around.)

Well,
I hope you found this short report helpful in some way

The moral of this entry : Never settle for mundane
conventioanl responses.

When a woman is hot, “never please but tease”.

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How To Get A Girl Horny Verbally

Photo Credits: Cutie Court

I know. There will always be women who are raised conservatively, bizarrely shy, religiously-constrained, and in response, you’d think their inner playgirl or ‘stripper’ has been handicapped from ever fully expressing their sensual side.

If you really want to know how to get a girl horny, or helplessly hot and bothered, it all boils down to how you emotionally connect with her under a sexual frame.

Although what you see on the surface may suggest that a woman is in the mood for sex, what lies beneath all that skin is an uncontestable universal truth. All women silently crave to fulfill their sexual urges. They all have a voracious appetite to get down and dirty, even if unconscious. It’s wired in our primitive nature. All it takes is one simple state shift for them to book first class flight to naughty-ville.

The problem is, most men just can’t escalate into a sexually-charged attraction level with her. This is usually due to the lack of emotional progression and comfort build.

Here is a fine 3-step method on how to get a girl horny and awaken her wild inner beast.

1. Start light with non-sugar coated compliments. Push and pull.

If you’re like most aspiring pick up students whose been preconditioned to believe that ‘sweet talking’ gets you no where, that it’s a catch 22 and condemned as a ‘nice guy’ thing to do, you ought to think again.

Women are vulnerable to sweet talk. It’s the overdose of sugar that’s destructive. When you compliment a woman, be cautious perform sincerely and tactically. When sweet talking, you must also trigger sexual tension simultaneously. That’s when Push and pull comes to play.

For instance, if you want to tell a girl she’s beautiful, try… (In a playful tone) “You’re too beautiful to be true.”

You could also tell her … “You’re beautiful, but I’m still debating whether your inner beauty matches up.” Or, “You know, you’re a very beautiful person, but is there more than what meets the eye?”

As you can see, we’ve successfully complimented, but also framed our dates to qualify her for you, which consequently positions you as the one being under pursuit.

2. Never reveal sexual intent. If you’d like a safety net in the process of creating sexual frenzy, never reveal your underlying intentions to sleep with her, and never fully communicate to her that ‘you like her.’ No signals, no hints. This is a reverse engineering tactic to make her comfortable in unconsciously developing a sexual and emotional desire for you.

3. Talk about sex like it’s no big deal.

Most men shudder at the thought of dwelling on sex. Truth is, if you want her to be comfortable with the thought of having sex with you, you must first induce her to associate you with sex as acceptable.

A quick and painless method is to get her into the spirit of ‘intellectually discussing’ about sex. Keep it controversial.

You can simply ask which celebrities have regular affairs, since temptation is all around them; or ask whether she thinks men or women are more desperate for sex. Approach this friendly argument with confidence and playfulness. Don’t take it seriously, and don’t treat it like a big deal. Apply humor where possible.

Your mission is to get her into a participatory mode and spread her insights on the multifaceted aspects to sex.

Then, progressively advance into more personal depths by asking what she considers ‘good sex.’  Just remember, the key to how to get a girl horny verbally is through the right emotional progression and sexual tension.

Follow the three steps respectively and her inner volcano will erupt in no time.

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5 Winning Mentalities – What Women Want in a Man

A timeless secret of mine to attracting women from all walks of life is to acquire the right mindset.

You can be armed with every trick inside the bag on picking up girls, but if you don’t have the right mentality, you’re only setting yourself up for failure. What women want in a man is one who understands that in order to be attractive, his way of thinking must be aligned with such qualities that attract.

Here are some foolproof methods every men needs to pay attention to in order attract beautiful women left and right.

1. Quit thinking about sex. I’m not discounting the importance of sex itself, but what needs to be controlled is your desperation to feel sexually gratified. When you are too sex-oriented, your communication behaviors and attitude becomes imbalanced. Your eyes start glaring with fire, and that boiling urge to have sex will be detected by women right away, which could lead to them feeling instantly repulsed.
2. To attract women like the naturals do, what you want to do is invest time to get familiar with her characteristics. You need to trigger emotional responses, and sustain a strong rapport. Find out what her music preference is, what she values in life, what her belief towards human existence is etc. Be curious about who she is, how she thinks, and not just what physical assets she carries or how she performs in bed.
3. Don’t be quick to judge. We often tend to judge too quickly and conclude whether a woman is right for you based on their external appearance. Never be so shallow. You’re missing out if you are blinded by temptation to go only for women with looks. What women want in a man is non-superficiality, strong morals, and someone that’s non judgmental. Eventually, your ideal type will cross fate with you.
4. You should make yourself open to any type of girl that might come across your life and help you grow as an individual. Dating a girl who is all looks but no brains can only run for so long.
5. Stay aloof and not interfere too much with the girl’s “own business” or “schedule.” Instead, devote more of your precious time to building yourself, and making yourself more valuable. Don’t work on attracting women; channel your energy and efforts on becoming more attractive.

Before I wrap this entry up, never front or deceive women. What women want in a man is one with an attractive mind, not just attractive body features.

I hope you guys enjoyed this entry.

As for now, have a great day.

Andrew Wang

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